So I have a new pot who contacted me on SA earlier this week. I have talked to him and he seems nice enough. Although, he is married which rather weird because I feel like if I begin an arrangement with him then I will be putting myself at risk for some horrible karma if or when I decide to get married. Have any of you other sugars encountered this problem? This pot is also very aggravating, it seems as though our schedules will not mesh as he wants to meet during the middle of the day, I don't have a problem with that except for the fact the those mid-day meetings may interfere with my academics. He also is offering 1000-1100/month and the sound of that money is so appealing that I may have to take him up on the offer. He probably thinks I'm extremely annoying because I keep badgering him about a picture, and then when he sent one I couldn't see his face so I told him to send another. I just would like to go on a lunch date with him so that I can see if we have chemistry. And I think I'll nickname him Mr. Married, because that's what he is. lol
Also, are there any "mentors" in the sugar world? Like sugars who have been doing this for some time and would like to help out a beginning sugar?
My SD is married and I love it! I think it's less complicated and much easier to have a set routine of when we're meeting. Plus I get nights to do whatever I want since he has to go back home to his family. As for karma, I believe in it, but at the same time I think everyone has a right to live a happy life. If a man is not getting what he needs at home, he is going to go somewhere else to get it. Period. So if he's not getting it from you, he will get it from another girl somewhere else. It's not just his problem, it's also his wife's. When you're married, keep your man happy and you won't have to worry about it.
ReplyDeleteI agree with Blissful, if the man isn't getting it from home, or from you, he's definitely getting it from some other girl. I try not to pry too much into their home lives to the point that I start thinking too much because well I don't know their situation and I would prefer it that way. I mean obviously something is lacking in their marriage. Also I'm new to this as well, and a college Freshman. Check out my Blog sometime =)
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