Random Post

I'm having a convo on SBFB and I just had a thought..."Why am I not just a hustler's girlfriend?" I mean pretty much same shit right? I don't know...I mean...I don't really like black men who are in the sugar bowl...because they are cheap as hell. At least in my experience most are, or they are looking for something "exotic" lmfao....
But hustlers....there's something about a bad boy that just makes me want to, well you know... Do the Bankhead Bounce while riding him. (for the record I just fell over laughing about that!) I mean here are my pros and cons about them:


Pros:
-Generous as they want you to look good because in turn they'll look good.
-Usually GREAT in bed!
...That's about it hahaha

Cons:
-Not many long-term goals.
-Not truly successful...a here-today/gone-tomorrow type.
-Indifferent to education...
-Cost-Benefit Analysis
         -It's not worth it at all to be involved with a high-risk situation.
-Not too smart
-Normally ratchet.
-Normally have side-chicks (and in RL I'm jealous if I'm your gf).
- Nouveau Riche and flashy (I am discreet and lowkey)

So I guess that's why I won't go with a hustler...although it's tempting. But I remember how lost my brother's old girlfriends were when he would get locked up...and I don't have time to post bail and all that shit...lmao

But damn the though was tempting.


In other news...
I'm staging my takeover lol. I mean, I'm just prepping myself for freestyling and immersing myself into sugar, because #1 it's summer, #2 I look good as hell, and #3 I think it is a shame to be a broke ass college student.

Do you guys have sugar inspirations? Like for me I LOVE Marlo from RHOA and Lisa-Raye's character on Single Ladies and I'm just curious about everyone else's.

SDs vs. "Johns" and SBs vs. Escorts

Ok so...posting CL ads are all the rage these days and I myself have joined in on the fun! So I'm currently relocated and am trying to understand the "Sugar scene" in my new surroundings and I posted a few CL ads....The first, it stayed up for about 24 hours and received A TON of emails. Among one of those were from a guy who simply asked "What are your needs." I like clear, succinct people but I put him to the side because he didn't say much about himself. Long story short: He's 35-39 range and works as a franchise owner of Papa Johns and owns 8 stores in NYC. Cool...I think that brings in a good amount of $$$. We decided to start with an allowance of 2500 and it would increase to my goal of 3-6k. Cool, cool. The more I got to know about him, the more I liked him. He was humble, super nice...blah, blah. So I ask him when we would be starting the arrangement and he said when I get there, cool. But I don't like his neighborhood and asked if we could meet in the "city" and he was like "Why? All the behind closed doors action happens here"
Whoa!
I proceeded to explain to him that an arrangement is not purely based off of sex. But instead, companionship. He says "Well I have needs. And when we start having sex then the arrangement begins"
Whoa x2!
Now...I'm a pretty sweet girl, but I'm also from South Philly and I don't play that dumb shit. Also, I know what my elder SBs told me about arrangements, and this is NOT IT. So I let him know that his previous "arrangements" were with nothing more than some cheap ass escorts and he was nothing more than a "John" and that he would actually be paying for my companionship because someone like him (no offense) would never get someone like me to even look twice at him without some financial compensation being received. Lets be honest here.

Now I must say this, but there are a lot of new girls attempting to enter into the Sugar (world, bowl, insert witty name) And this is lovely, HOWEVER...with a lot of the media coverage this lifestyle receives it is fucking shit up for the rest of us! Now, I researched this world for MONTHS before I even started this blog just to make sure I wanted this and that this would be the right course for my life. I read NUMEROUS blogs and even bought some of the eBooks from experienced and successful SBs. Unfortunately, I feel as though the number of true sugar babies is varying inversely as these cheap, ass college escorts are coming in and throwing SALT IN THE SUGAR BOWL! Wtf is that?!
For example, I had a friend who entered the sugar bowl a few months after I did and she pretty much became a college escort but titled herself as a "Sugarbaby". NO BITCH! You are giving hand jobs for Lunchables and Capri Suns! What happened to the days when SBs knew their value? When SBs stuck together? When SDs acted like a gentleman should act, instead of a horny ass douchebag? What happened?
I honestly can't even talk and ask about what happened because I came in truly on the tail end, last October. But even I have noticed a difference in the quality of men and even the quality of the girls. If you are selling your cookies to the highest bidder then you might as well take your ass to he nearest "Ho-Stroll" and get it poppin off over there! I'm sick of men trying to flash a few dollars in my face thinking that that will make me just go and do a split on the dick. No. No. And HELL NO.

Also on SBFB all the Sugars that I looked up to and would look forward to seeing on my newsfeed have disappeared and in replacement some questionable ass hoes have reappeared. I don't like that. I try to be nice but I'm not here for weirdos, fakes, and snakes. In the past 2 weeks I've received like 10 requests....now I understand that I was once those girls (if they are girls) and I needed friends but sheesh! I am extremely selective about who gets into "Kara's World"
But that's all for now!
Good night
xoxoxo