Ok so...posting CL ads are all the rage these days and I myself have joined in on the fun! So I'm currently relocated and am trying to understand the "Sugar scene" in my new surroundings and I posted a few CL ads....The first, it stayed up for about 24 hours and received A TON of emails. Among one of those were from a guy who simply asked "What are your needs." I like clear, succinct people but I put him to the side because he didn't say much about himself. Long story short: He's 35-39 range and works as a franchise owner of Papa Johns and owns 8 stores in NYC. Cool...I think that brings in a good amount of $$$. We decided to start with an allowance of 2500 and it would increase to my goal of 3-6k. Cool, cool. The more I got to know about him, the more I liked him. He was humble, super nice...blah, blah. So I ask him when we would be starting the arrangement and he said when I get there, cool. But I don't like his neighborhood and asked if we could meet in the "city" and he was like "Why? All the behind closed doors action happens here"
Whoa!
I proceeded to explain to him that an arrangement is not purely based off of sex. But instead, companionship. He says "Well I have needs. And when we start having sex then the arrangement begins"
Whoa x2!
Now...I'm a pretty sweet girl, but I'm also from South Philly and I don't play that dumb shit. Also, I know what my elder SBs told me about arrangements, and this is NOT IT. So I let him know that his previous "arrangements" were with nothing more than some cheap ass escorts and he was nothing more than a "John" and that he would actually be paying for my companionship because someone like him (no offense) would never get someone like me to even look twice at him without some financial compensation being received. Lets be honest here.
Now I must say this, but there are a lot of new girls attempting to enter into the Sugar (world, bowl, insert witty name) And this is lovely, HOWEVER...with a lot of the media coverage this lifestyle receives it is fucking shit up for the rest of us! Now, I researched this world for MONTHS before I even started this blog just to make sure I wanted this and that this would be the right course for my life. I read NUMEROUS blogs and even bought some of the eBooks from experienced and successful SBs. Unfortunately, I feel as though the number of true sugar babies is varying inversely as these cheap, ass college escorts are coming in and throwing SALT IN THE SUGAR BOWL! Wtf is that?!
For example, I had a friend who entered the sugar bowl a few months after I did and she pretty much became a college escort but titled herself as a "Sugarbaby". NO BITCH! You are giving hand jobs for Lunchables and Capri Suns! What happened to the days when SBs knew their value? When SBs stuck together? When SDs acted like a gentleman should act, instead of a horny ass douchebag? What happened?
I honestly can't even talk and ask about what happened because I came in truly on the tail end, last October. But even I have noticed a difference in the quality of men and even the quality of the girls. If you are selling your cookies to the highest bidder then you might as well take your ass to he nearest "Ho-Stroll" and get it poppin off over there! I'm sick of men trying to flash a few dollars in my face thinking that that will make me just go and do a split on the dick. No. No. And HELL NO.
Also on SBFB all the Sugars that I looked up to and would look forward to seeing on my newsfeed have disappeared and in replacement some questionable ass hoes have reappeared. I don't like that. I try to be nice but I'm not here for weirdos, fakes, and snakes. In the past 2 weeks I've received like 10 requests....now I understand that I was once those girls (if they are girls) and I needed friends but sheesh! I am extremely selective about who gets into "Kara's World"
But that's all for now!
Good night
xoxoxo
haha hilarious. I know, it's really sad that some girls dont value their time very much - not only are they not SBs but they'll only meet disgusting guys that way :( it also fucks up shit for the rest of us. But, each to their own, best to try to rise above and just operate at a higher level I think, and maybe brings as many girls up to SB status as possible too by teaching/showing :) xx
ReplyDelete^^^ took the words right out of my mouth :)
ReplyDeletea lot of these girls don't understand the concept of an SB, i know i didn't when I started and had to do my research. But the ones that are doing it just to get a quick buck when they know that's not the way to do it are fucking it up for us all. I agree, all the media attention that's been about the sugar lifestyle is attracting a lot of johns and pros. There's already such a thin line between the two and it's making it even thiner.
Completely agree!
ReplyDelete